Thanks to a number of advancements as well as a shift in public perception, penis enlargement is now seen as something pretty mainstream. In fact, many researchers have turned their attention to the issue because of how many men have begun to step forward with concerns about size. This new-found popularity brings with it a better understand – for men and their partners – about why size is important and why men should, and shouldn’t undergo the process.
All the Wrong Reasons
Like other forms of body modification, penis enlargement is a personal choice and something men should enter into because it’s something they want to do for themselves. Too often, however, men feel pressure to begin the process. This pressure usually comes from their perception of the public’s view of men with a small penis as well as perceived pressure from their wife, girlfriend of sexual partner.
Public perception about penis size has changed since the first report on human sexuality was published by the now infamous Dr. Kinsey. Initially the researchers who compiled the original Kinsey Report asked men all over the country to give their penis measurements through self-reporting. Needless to say, there were plenty of guys who added a little to their true reading and, as a result, the public was initially told the average penis size for American men was right around 7 inches. Much later, more thorough researchers devices to do the measuring themselves and found the true average penis size was closer to 5 inches when erect. But, by this time, the damage had been done and both men and women believed the initial number to be true. In fact, many people still believe anything under 7 inches is woefully inadequate.
A man’s sex partners won’t often bring up size as it’s clearly a touchy subject. In fact, many women don’t necessarily even notice the size of a man’s penis unless it is disproportionate to the rest of his body. Still, though, men have already felt the public pressure regarding size and so it’s nearly impossible for them not to project at least some of that anxiety onto their partner. This anxiety can cause a number of performance issues including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and simple being preoccupied during sex and not giving their wife or girlfriend the attention they need in order to reach orgasm.
The final result of all this real and perceived pressure? Men who think the only option is to undergo penis enlargement. But this only sets them up for failure as the process of enlargement is both time and energy consuming and simply won’t work if men try it in order to please someone else.
The RIGHT Reason
The bottom line is that penile enlargement is a lot like dieting. Yes, it can be good for you and yes it can do a lot to improve your overall physical and mental well-being. However, it needs to be something you want to do for yourself. There are men who have legitimate problems when it comes to size and others who are within the normal range but still feel as though some extra length would give them the confidence they need to perform better. These men take the time to understand the entire process of enlargement and can enter into it in a healthy way.
Penis enlargement has come a long way since it was first introduced nearly 100 years ago. Today, men all over the world use it as a way to improve their appearance and even their performance, but only if they decide to do it for the right reasons – it has to be for themselves. Doing any kind of body modification for someone else or as a way to bend to cultural pressure simply won’t work – it will just lead you on a wild goose chase that never ends. So if you’re considering enlargement, take some time to understand the process read through the stories of other men You’ll be able to make the decision if it’s right for you and gain the insight and support you need to see you through.